Oral sex by definition is sexual stimulation of genital of a man or woman by his/her partner using the mouth. The different forms of oral sex are cunnilingus, fellatio (blowjob), nipping and analingus. Cunnilingus is the act of licking and stimulating a lady’s “deep blue sea” with lips and tongue. Fellatio (blowjob) is the act of sucking and stimulating of men’s “willy’ with the mouth. Similarly, analingus (oro-anal sex) is the sexual stimulation of both male and female anus with tongue or lips. Sucking or licking the nipples to elicit sexual stimulation.
ENIGMA OF SEX AND THE NEED TO EXPLOIT!
Is your bedroom getting blah? You can try orals. Most women love oral, so getting it right is one of the keys to a great sex life. Oral sex is a crucial part of great foreplay and can be a full-on sexual experience in its own right. Plus, getting her aroused orally means less pressure on you to last forever during the main “show-down”. Guys, how about that! Everyone is different, one of the most important things to remember here is that all women are different. What works for one might not work for another and what worked last night might not work tonight!
Where does that leave you? With so much to do, hmm! It’ll be fun attempting out new things! Mix things up as much as you can until you’ve built up a few great foreplay techniques that provide more options. If what you’re doing isn’t getting the right sighs and moans, move on to something else. Never skip or rush oral sex; slow and steady is the key to getting a lady turned on. Oral sex heats up the aura of you and your partner in the bedroom, and that will make the encounter a memorable one. How long do you need to go? That entirely depends on a lady’s sexual satisfaction. Until she orgasms and squirts, don’t stop oral sex in women.
WHY SHOULD YOU GIVE HER HEAD?
There are several reasons to get down to a lady’s garden, and these were beneficial to both partners. Firstly, female ejaculate fluid (amrita) is rich in protein. According to a study, female ejaculate is similar to semen and contains high levels of prostatic acid phosphatase (a protein) and glucose.
Furthermore, oral sex is a way to achieve real orgasm in women; with orgasm women archives full sexual pleasure and gratification. Several surveys show that women fake their orgasm seven-times out of ten for penetration sex, but with oral sex, they do experience the true orgasm 10 out of 10 times. Finally, oral sex elicits ejaculation in women; ejaculation helps increase immunity, and detoxify the body.
FELLATIO! MEN’S FAVOURITE
The feeling of a “blowjob” in men is overwhelming, no wonder it’s the most suitable sex style for short-term sex “quickie”. At the bar, in the club and even at home the demand for a “blowjob” is second to none. While many people still criticise oral sex due to social, moral and religious believes, fellatio remains the most common foreplay for men.
WHAT DO MEN GAIN IN FELLATIO?
Asides the fact that oral sex helps build a good sexual relationship in and out of the bedroom, it also helps to reduce depression and stress. Also, the hormone released from orgasms helps with sleep and also calms people down. Similarly, men’s sperm contains some antidepressant chemicals- prostaglandins. Oxytocin, endorphins produced during orgasms is a powerful painkiller pain in women.
Additionally, sex is a form of exercise, and like all exercise, it burns calories. Plus, more ejaculations help to reduce the risk of prostate cancer.
EWW! SORRY, I CAN’T GO DOWN!
You can’t get oral sex if you’ve bad hygiene, poor “willy” or “lady’s flower” smell and the taste of sperm or vaginal juice is terrible. Men can never go down on women with poor vaginal hygiene and bad odour. A neat and well-kept “vaginal city” attracts men to go down.
Also, the vagina scent depends wholly on the hygiene; what you eat can change the smell of your “lady’s garden”, for a fruity aroma and taste, eat fruits like berries, watermelon etc.
Further, avoid spicy foods, beer, and coffee especially when you want to have oral sex as this cause the vagina to smell bad. Besides, avoid the use of soap down on the vagina; pant liners, tampons, and pads should be changed routinely to decrease the risk of infection.
The perils of oral sex
Oral sex increases the risk of oral-genital sexually transmitted infections such as Human Papillomavirus (HPV), herpes virus, gonorrhoea, syphilis etc. HPV is the most common STD (sexually transmitted diseases) through oral sex, and it’s the leading cause of throat cancer and cervical cancer in women. However, there is vaccination available for the teenagers and those who are sexually active. According to W.H.O., HPV infection rate is increasing among the youth yearly.